Meet local Jazz Singer Julie McConnell

Meet local Jazz Singer Julie McConnell

By Peggy Ratusz

For this sensual, intentional and emotive Jazzebelle singer and pianist, Julie McConnell, the music gene dates far back and on both sides of her family tree. Her older brother Jack was a successful classical singer by the time he was 15. Her father played piano and her mom sang in choirs most of her life. Her paternal grandfather played double bass in big bands here in Asheville during the 1930’s and 40’s, and her maternal grandfather was a crooner and played mountain music with his six brothers in Bent Mountain, VA.

How/when did you discover you had the music gene?

“I knew I was meant to be creative and when I was five, it looked like I was to be a dancer. I was quite good. But I longed to learn to play the music I danced to. We had a beat-up, painted-green piano with no bench. I would stand at that piano and pick out melodies. Though I desperately wanted piano lessons, my parents wanted me to stay focused on dance. So, I decided to learn on my own. I found an erasable marker and labeled the keys with numbers one through eight over and over until every key was labeled. After dance class, I’d hit the piano and try to figure out the melody I had heard that day. This led me to writing songs. When my parents realized what I was doing, they had me play some of my pieces, and within two weeks I was taking piano lessons. By ninth grade, I was a musician.”

Talk about your mentors

“Kathy Coe, my piano teacher, the choral and theater director at our church, Marvin Williams, were my early years’ mentors.  My brother was in the choir which made me want to be a part of the choir too, but I was only ten years old. So I learned the alto arias from The Messiah and sang them for anyone who would listen.  Within a month, Marvin invited me to join the adult choir. I sang with them until I left for college.

By the time I got to high school, following in my brother’s footsteps became very difficult. I realized I wanted to be recognized more for playing the piano. Maggie Hawks, the Junior High and High School Choral & Drama teacher believed in me. I had a freakish ability to learn difficult pieces without being able to “read” that well, and I was a wonderful harmony singer. I might not have been in every choral group in high school without her confidence in my abilities.

Four colleges offered me vocal scholarships, including my Alma Mater Appalachian State University. I was singing professionally by the time I was 17, and I won Vocal Student of the year at my high school. Convinced that voice and singing was my destiny, I’ve never looked back.”

What led you to Jazz music?

“At most colleges in the late 70’s and early 80’s you couldn’t major in any other genre but classical. So after struggling to survive financially being a professional classical singer, I delved into musical theater again with big bands and combo groups, and this soon expanded and changed almost exclusively into Jazz.”

What do you ultimately hope to achieve as an artist?

“It’s important for me to stay relative in the local music scene. My destiny is to sing and help others reach their vocal and musical goals. As long as those two things are my compass, I’m happy. I taught music and choral privately and in public schools, and I found it as rewarding as it was for me to  perform. Since moving back to WNC, I teach at Haywood Community college, and my husband and I have a private music studio:  McConnell’s Music, in Pisgah Forest.”

Who are your current band members?

“I’m fortunate to have a smokin’ hot four-piece band! They speak my language and can create the space I need to deliver.  Bill Gerhardt, piano, Chris Beyt, guitar, Bryan McConnell, my very talented husband is on bass and Justin Watt, drums.”

Please discuss how you interact with and respond to fans.

“I’m down to earth and accessible, but also a private person. I’ve learned how to save some for myself. Everyone likes praise but I’m not driven by the need for “followers.” If what I sing resonates with someone, then I’m happy to hear it. I tell the audience stories about my life and I risk being vulnerable because that’s what makes a song mean something and allows it to be felt by all.”

What advice would you give a female Jazz musician starting out?

“It’s work. You have to know you HAVE to do it. The more honest you are about your strengths and shortcomings, the sooner neither will hold power over you. People attend concerts to feel and to relate. Keep this front and center and your ego in check. Give from your heart, be generous, and you’ll be successful and fulfilled.”

The Julie McConnell Quintet has a show on Saturday, March 7th at the DFR Room in Brevard starting at 8pm. For details, visit her website. And for voice and piano lessons, as well as learning about and registering for the vocal workshops Julie facilitates, visit the website or email her at [email protected]

Website link: mcconnellsmusic.com

Facebook link:  facebook.com/profile.php?id=100030654901658

Peggy Ratusz – Living the life doing what she loves most

Peggy Ratusz – Living the life doing what she loves most

well established presence in the Asheville music scene since 2002, Jazz and Blues Chanteuse Peggy Ratusz performs an infectious, sultry, multi-layered brand of original, traditional and modern Blues, Soul and Jazz. While influences such as Ray Charles, Connie Evingson, Joan Osborne and Bonnie Raitt are evident, it can’t be denied that her unique style and voice are one of a kind. She and her backing bands are particularly impressive during live performances where audiences are warmed by the glow of her shine. Inspired by the rhythm, the melodies and content of the stories she tells, every drop of emotion is authentic and shows all who are present, that she’s a willing servant to the music she writes and covers.

For over forty years, opportunities have come her way that have landed her on television shows, radio, festival line ups, theaters, bars, restaurants, benefits, private events and showcases. She spent seven years based in Tucson, Arizona where she toured the West in a folk rock trio from 1979 to 1985. Audiences began to experience the richness, power and emotion of her voice evoking positive reviews and acclaim. In 1985 she moved to “the live music capital of the world ” a.k.a. Austin, Texas and stepped into the Blues pool fronting a 4-pc Chicago Blues style band called The Bootleggers. She performed at popular clubs in Austin such as The Steam Boat, The Black Cat Lounge, 311 Club, Babe’s and Maggie Mae’s. Throughout the 1990’s she was also a featured entertainer in show bands such as Hot Wax, Apollo Soul and The Copy Cats, covering Motown and Soul music from the 60’s and 70’s and 80’s.

In November of 2002, she moved to Western North Carolina and now makes her home in Fletcher. “Listening is the most important aspect about creating music people need to hear. It enables us to lift each other up as musicians on stage together, which in turn gives us the opportunity to fearlessly stretch ourselves beyond what we thought we were capable of doing.” The talented musicians, who share the stage with her, agree.

The 2000’s have been banner years for this still very young 62 year old singer and musician. An original track from her freshman CD, “Sexual High” was picked by Jomar Records and is featured on the compilation CD, National Women in Blues. Her live version of Memphis Slim’s I’m Lost Without You featuring Duane Simpson on acoustic guitar is on the 12th Volume of WNCW’s Crowd Around the Mic CD. She and her bands have been voted Best in Blues for 10 years, the last 4 in a row (2016-2019) and in 2008, 2010 and 2016, Peggy was a semi-finalist in the most prestigious Blues competition in the world, The International Blues Challenge held for the past 36 years in Memphis, TN.

In early 2010, Peggy officially released her sophomore album, Infused with the Blues which features 23 of Asheville’s best instrumentalists and vocalists. Kellin Watson, Paula Hanke, Ron Clearfield, Mike Barnes, River Guerguerian, Jonathan Scales, Rhoda Weaver, Duane Simpson, Joey Katkowski, Rob Geisler and more. All gifted musicians and singers, she calls friends. In 2011 she opened for the Tedeschi Trucks Band at the Spartanburg Memorial Auditorium. Ratusz has also shared the stage with or opened for The Beach Boys, Taj Mahal, Bernard Allison, Denise LaSalle, Candye Kane, Bob Margolin, Geff Achison, Kellin Watson and Shannon Whitworth.

She’s performed at The Bull Durham Blues Festival, Chattanooga’s Riverbend Festival, Carolina Blues Festival, Women In Blues Festival, End of Summer Blues Festival, The Green Swan Festival, Bele Chere and area venues such as The Orange Peel, Isis Restaurant & Music Hall, The Grey Eagle Music Hall, Ambrose West, Jack of the Wood, 5 Walnut and Tressa’s Downtown Jazz & Blues.

Women Who Made Music History Concerts, LLC is her latest endeavor, co-producing and co-starring with local vocalist, Paula Hanke. Since 2016, the pair has successfully aligned themselves within the Performing Arts circuit, garnered a booking agent out of NYC and are currently touring one of their shows, Love is a Rose, that celebrates super star, Linda Ronstadt. www.loveisaroselive.com

An advocate for area and touring musicians, she’s booked bands and singer-songwriters at area bars and restaurants including Jack of the Wood, The Block off Biltmore and Tressa’s Downtown Jazz & Blues. For two years, she hosted a bi-monthly Female Artist Spotlight Night at Tressa’s Jazz & Blues which were paid showcases for women artists of all genres from novice to professional. For several years, she was a teen band music mentor for several area youth bands and is now a volunteer at Girls Rock Asheville. For the past 15 years, Peggy has been a sought after vocal coach,
and her monthly feature, Women Making Music has graced the pages of  SOFIA.

Playin’ it forward is the philosophy by which she lives. To be lucky enough to make a living doing what she loves the most and does the best is not something this ruby throated Blues Mama, ever takes for granted.

Peggy Ratusz is a vocal coach,
song interpreter, and songwriter.

For vocal coaching email her at

[email protected]

Why is Good Communication so Elusive?

Why is Good Communication so Elusive?

By Cheri Torres

There’s a reason effective communication has remained in the top five issues in relationships and organizations. We treat it like a transaction: I say something, you receive the message and interpret it, then you respond. We point at and blame one another for not communicating effectively, for misinterpreting, or not understanding. With this model, communication becomes a problem to be solved. But, it’s not.

The Foundation of Communication

Consider that we are almost always in conversation with ourselves or others. Language allows us to create meaning in the world, assess experience, and predict. When it comes to our inner dialogue, language is the basis for rehearsing what we’re going to say, worrying about what we said, critiquing what just happened, judging others and ourselves, making up stories, running through possible solutions to problems, assessing the level of threat in a situation, projecting onto others, and worrying about or planning the future. This inner world of dialogue creates a preconditioned mindset, which influences our communication. If we want to improve our communication, mindfulness about the influence of our words and their effect on us and others is essential.

Words Influence Our Mindset

Our nervous system has two primary functions: (1) keep us safe and alive and (2) enable us to connect, think, and create. The first function is dominant. Anytime we are threatened, our nervous system activates our protect functions: fight, flight, freeze, or appease. There is a whole biochemistry associated with this. Stress hormones are released—cortisol, norepinephrine, and  testosterone. These hormones boost energy and oxygen to the muscles and away from the higher order centers of the brain: the prefrontal lobe and the neocortex. They also generate an array of emotions, influenced by our thoughts. If we need to flee a saber tooth tiger, this an effective solution. However, it is most ineffective if we are instead facing a boss who’s expressing disappointment in our performance or we need to have a crucial conversation with a child. When we communicate from a place of high stress, fear, anger, etc., we have limited access to the parts of our brain that enable connection, creativity, and higher order thinking. We are bound to communicate ineffectively.

One of the primary threats in relationships and the business world is the threat of being excluded, ostracized, and rejected. Belonging is one of those basic human needs; without the tribe we die. When we have a strong sense of belonging and feel secure in our relationships and position within the organization or the family, it is easier to face stress without getting hijacked into protecting ourselves. This sense of belonging stimulates hormones that shift the brain chemistry in ways that gives us access to the prefrontal lobe and neocortex. A different set of emotions are generated by these hormones: Love, caring, appreciation, curiosity, etc. When we have access to those parts of the brain we can connect with others, access emotional intelligence, be creative, learn, and engage in critical thinking. This is what we most need for effective communication, especially in those stressful situations.  So, how do we shift our brain chemistry?

Mindfulness

To foster effective communication means being in charge of your own mindset before beginning to speak.

1. You are in charge. Understand your ability to communicate effectively is influenced by your brain-body chemistry. Understand you are NOT your neurophysiology. You can influence it.

2. Practice awareness. As soon as you experience the need to protect and defend yourself, PAUSE. Take a deep breath.

3. Then, get curious. Ask questions that help you shift the way you are thinking:

  What do I actually want to happen right now?

  What else might explain what the other person said or did?

  What information might I not know?

  What questions can I ask that will expand the opportunity in this situation?

Just asking these kinds of questions changes your brain chemistry. Curiosity is a positive emotion, associated with the prefrontal lobe. When you communicate from this more whole brain place, your communication is naturally more effective. As you access emotional intelligence you are able to relate better; your body language, tone of voice, and words you use are more likely to support connection. Your ability to come from a whole brain mindset supports a shift in mindset for the others in the conversation as well, influencing their ability to communicate more effectively.

Good communication is an “inside job.” Asking questions that generate curiosity, openness, and interest helps us manage our stress response and negative emotions, allowing our natural ability for good communication
to emerge.

Cheri Torres is an author and speaker cheritorres.com. You can download a free Conversation Toolkit and learn more sparking great conversations at ConversationsWorthHaving.today.

Unbroken

Unbroken

By JeanAnn Taylor

Here we are in February—smack dab in the middle of pink hearts, red roses, and true love forever. Everywhere I shop, I see aisles and aisles of cards, candy, and plastic Valentine trinkets. We are enticed with so many things to buy: things that will make us happy, things to fill a void of emptiness, things to make everyone we know think that we are perfectly happy. Most of us have experienced times in our lives when we have felt hurt, stuck, or hopeless. Perhaps a relationship ended, a career didn’t go as planned, or we grew up with unsupportive parents leaving us with feelings of doubt and insecurity. We look on Facebook, or “fakebook” as I call it, and see the blissful life of everyone we know. We live in such an abundant time, yet we yearn for more. We need more—to be happy. Except, maybe we don’t. Maybe we need to look inside ourselves and fix what is broken.

Being broken day after day can feel so familiar, it becomes strangely comfortable. Beware of this feeling! This “comfort zone” is not really comfortable at all. It’s important to not let yourself settle in there and make it “home.” Breaking through this brokenness is important because when we are happy and satisfied with our lives, we are more likely to achieve our personal dreams and goals. Our self-confidence can grow and our motivation to succeed can flourish. We can learn to be compassionate and treat ourselves as we would someone we love dearly.

I’m fascinated with the Japanese art of Kintsugi and the culture of wabi-sabi. The century-old practice of Kintsugi means fixing broken pottery rather than tossing it out. It can also be applied to our own emotional state. The technique involves filling in a crack or joining two broken pieces with gold-laced adhesives, leaving the cup or bowl gleaming, artistic, and unique. The technique actually emphasizes that the pottery is repaired from brokenness and is now more beautiful than before. Kintsugi expresses regret in wastefulness and the acceptance of change. Honestly accepting and acknowledging brokenness is the first step to restoring pottery—and people.

Wabi-sabi is a way of seeing beauty in imperfection. This tradition honors authenticity and can change our perception of brokenness. With wabi-sabi, the scars that come from our healing are valued because perfection isn’t the goal, wellness is. “Wabi” refers to originality  and understated elegance, “sabi” refers to the beauty that comes with age and natural simplicity. Healing from being broken leaves us with authentic understanding, knowledge, the capacity to be happy and to love ourselves.

Becoming unbroken is a life-long journey and ongoing process of self-discovery requiring intentional focus and choice. We can choose happiness, to be kind to ourselves, to forgive ourselves, and to heal. During this month of love, celebrate who you are, forgive yourself, and fill in the cracks of your life with something sparkly. Change your perception that brokenness is permanent and find gratitude in everything. Be unbroken.

Please send your thoughts and ideas to me at [email protected]

Treat Yourself to Year-Round Fresh Flowers

Treat Yourself to Year-Round Fresh Flowers

By Betty Sharpless

February is the perfect time to begin planting flower seeds. These seeds will grow into flowers to fill your vases and to gift to friends throughout the year. Instead of spending your dollars on cut bouquets from the grocery store, you can spend pennies–and just a little time–to grow your own cutting flowers in flower beds, porch or deck pots, or raised beds. An added benefit to planting flowers is that you are feeding honeybees and other pollinators necessary to create all of the vegetables and fruits we eat every day.

Why not invite the bees and butterflies into your yard?

You will want to plant your seeds in a sunny area that gets at least six hours of full sun each day. It’s a good idea to place your garden or flower-pots close to a source of water like a rain barrel or a faucet. If you are planting in the ground, use a shovel to turn the soil and remove any existing grass or weeds. If you are planting in pots or a new raised bed, be sure there is adequate drainage by having one to two inches of rocks or pebbles at the bottom. Use a packaged raised-bed soil or potting soil to fill the containers.

When planting seeds, the rule of thumb is to plant them twice as deep as the size of the seed. Little seeds, like poppy seeds are simply sprinkled on the top and patted in.  Big seeds like nasturtiums, need to be poked into the soil about ¾” deep. Starting in February, is the time to plant seeds for poppies, nigella, bachelor’s buttons, and larkspur. All of these seeds are the kind you will pat into the soil. Leave some space for the seeds to follow: zinnias and cosmos will bloom from late spring until the first frost in October. If you have a lot of room, consider adding bigger flowers like sunflowers and tithonia (also called Mexican sunflower).  For smaller potted gardens, consider marigolds and nasturtiums.

When cutting bouquets, try to cut in the cooler times of the day. Have a bucket of cool water handy so the cut ends go right into water, avoiding wilting. Make sure the vase has plenty of water to support the flowers. If you refresh the vase with clean water every few days your flowers will last longer. Almost any watertight container can be a vase. Experiment with jars, buckets, old pitchers and even old watering cans.

All of the above seeds are sturdy growers called “annual flower seeds,” because they die at the end of each season. Once you have succeeded with annuals, you might want to branch out into trying perennials from seeds such as black-eyed Susans or purple cone flowers.

I hope you enjoy giving yourself fresh bouquets as much as others will enjoy receiving flowers from you.

Betty Sharpless is a professional free-lance gardener, writer, and quilter who loves firecracker alliums–magic wands in the making! Follow her on Instagram @sharplessbetty

Heart Healthy

Heart Healthy

By Natasha Kubis

According to the Center of Disease Control, about 647,000 Americans die from heart disease each year—that is one in every four deaths. The American Heart Association states that a healthy diet and lifestyle choices may reduce your risk of heart disease by 80%. February is National Heart Month and it is the perfect time to review your lifestyle and make heart healthy choices.

Fat Facts

We need healthy fats in our diet, but not all fats are created equal. One fat we do not need is trans fat. Trans fats are industry-produced fats often used in packaged goods, snack foods, cakes, margarines, and fast foods in order to add flavor and texture. They are known to increase your risk of developing heart disease or having a stroke and should be avoided.

  Trans fats are made when food manufacturers turn liquid oils into solid fats like shortening or margarine. Animal foods, such as red meats and dairy, have small amounts of trans fats, but most trans fats come from processed foods and those are the ones of which to be the most wary.

  Your body does not need or benefit from trans fats. They raise your LDL (bad) cholesterol and they also lower your HDL (good) cholesterol. High LDL along with low HDL levels can cause cholesterol to build up in your arteries. This increases your risk for heart disease and stroke.

  Eating too much trans fat can cause you to gain weight and may also increase your risk for type 2 diabetes. Staying at a healthy weight can reduce your risk for diabetes, heart disease, and other health problems.

While trans fats serve no purpose but to give processed foods a longer shelf life and raise your cholesterol, healthy fats may help lower your risk of heart disease, if you eat them in place of unhealthy fats. Monounsaturated fat and polyunsaturated fat are considered more heart healthy fats.

Monounsaturated fats help lower “bad” (LDL) cholesterol and raise “good” (HDL) cholesterol. Sources include canola, olive, and peanut oils, olives, avocados, nuts, and nut butters.

Polyunsaturated fats are known as essential fats because the body cannot make them and needs them from food sources. Omega-3 fatty acid is an example and it can help lower triglycerides, a type of fat that clogs arteries. Sources include fish (such as tuna, salmon, mackerel, trout, herring, and sardines), ground flaxseed and flaxseed oil, soybeans, walnuts, and seeds. To get more omega-3 fatty acids, have fish twice a week, add ground flaxseed to cereals, soups, and smoothies, or sprinkle walnuts on salads.

Saturated fats, primarily found in animal products, have been linked with increased heart disease risks. This idea has been recently debated and the conclusion is to eat it sparingly and in moderation. Foods high in saturated fat are fatty cuts of beef, pork, lamb, high-fat dairy foods (whole milk, butter, cheese, sour cream, ice cream), and tropical oils (coconut oil, palm oil, cocoa butter).

Tips For Eating Well

  Add more fruit and vegetables. These are low in calories and rich in dietary fiber. Eating more fruits and vegetables may help you cut back on higher calorie foods, such as meat, cheese, and snack foods. Grabbing a handful of baby carrots, instead of crackers, is always a good idea.

  Go for the grains. Whole grains are good sources of fiber and other nutrients that play a role in regulating blood pressure and heart health. A whole grain still contains its endosperm, germ, and bran, in contrast to refined grains, which retain only the endosperm. This is the major difference between brown rice and white rice. Some examples of whole grains are barley, brown rice, buckwheat, bulgur (cracked wheat), millet, and oatmeal.

  Eat lean. Lean meat, poultry, fish, legumes, and eggs are some of your best sources of protein. Fish is a good alternative to high-fat meats. Legumes — beans, peas and lentils — also are good sources of protein, contain less fat, and no cholesterol. Substituting plant protein for animal protein will reduce your fat and cholesterol intake while increasing your fiber intake. It may be great to add a couple of “meat free” days to the week and add in a homemade veggie burger or a lentil loaf.

  Reduce the sodium in your food. Eating a lot of sodium can contribute to high blood pressure, a risk factor for cardiovascular disease. Reducing sodium is an important part of a heart-healthy diet and can be done by cutting the amount of salt you add to food at the table or while cooking. Much of the salt you eat comes from canned or processed foods, such as soups, baked goods, and frozen dinners. Eating fresh foods or making your own soups and stews can reduce the amount of salt you eat.

Get Moving

A sedentary lifestyle is one of the top risk factors for heart disease. The American Heart Association recommends fitting in at least 150 minutes (2.5 hours) of heart-pumping physical activity per week. This activity serves to strengthen your heart and cardiovascular system by improving your circulation, helping your body use oxygen better, increasing endurance, lowering blood pressure, helping reduce body fat, and maintaining your weight. It is also a key way to help you reduce stress, tension, anxiety, and depression. Brisk walking, running, swimming, cycling, playing tennis, and jumping rope are great activities to benefit the heart.

Squash Stress

Stress is an unavoidable part of life and contributes to 80% of all major illnesses, including cardiovascular disease. Here are some practices to help reduce stress.

  Focused breathing is a valuable tool to calm anxiety. The 4-7-8 Breathing Method is a 3-step breathing technique that is intended to slow your heart rate and calm your mind. To practice this technique breathe in deeply through your nose for 4 seconds, then hold your breath for 7 seconds and exhale through your mouth for 8 seconds. Repeat this cycle for four rounds.

  Progressive relaxation works to relax one muscle at a time until the entire body is at ease. Beginning with the muscles in the face, the muscles are contracted gently for one to two seconds and then relaxed. This is repeated several times. The same technique is used for other muscle groups, usually in the following sequence: jaw and neck, upper arms, lower arms, fingers, chest, abdomen, buttocks, thighs, calves, and feet. Eventually all of the muscles of the body feel at ease.

Our heart is a well used machine that beats about 2.5 billion times over the average lifetime. All that hard work is responsible for pushing millions of gallons of blood to every part of the body, which aids in all the physiological functions required to live. When the heart stops, essential functions fail. Poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, infections, unlucky genes, and poorly managed stress can be extra taxing on the heart. Be kind to your heart and show it some love, so it continues to perform efficiently.

Natasha Kubis is a licensed acupuncturist and certified yoga teacher.
For more 
information, visit essential-well.com

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